Is there a positive side to regret?

Regrets, yes regrets! I believe we all have made mistakes in the past and we regret our actions and the things we said. We wish we could turn back the hands of time and do things differently.

Most times we blame people for our mistakes, we never take responsibility for our actions and so we live in bitterness blaming others for our mistakes. 

I believe there is a reason for everything that has happened in our lives. We may not understand everything but its for a reason. Yes, it could be a mistake but there is a lesson in every mistake which makes us better. Sometimes, we learn the hard way, it costs us something, we cry and even wish death, we ask questions and most times, we never get answers, we regret the essence of life and we live in regret.

What is the essence of living in regret when you can learn a lesson from every mistake and move on? Its natural to feel bad when certain things happen or when we do certain things. We feel the sense of guilt but in everything that happens, there is something to learn. Like the saying goes, we start to die when we stop learning.

I believe everything we have been through even the mistakes have made us who we are. I think the best thing in life is not to regret but learn from the experience.